I slipped this weekend. Things were going well and then when I was left alone in the home, I started snooping. Wrong, I know, but hey, I'm a woman and that's what we do (or at least some of us).
Not just women. But hey, you're human, right? So no other excuses, you see how it affected the relationship, so decide if you're going to snoop or not forward going.
we're having such difficulty getting past our own individual pains and suffering. What can we do as a couple? We are in counseling as you all know and of course things have improved since we started this journey. But the road sometimes seems so challenging that we would be crazy to even try to take it. I guess sometimes my H and I grow weary.
Nobody's wonderful and up to it 24/7. If you can meet these challenges, you grow stronger, bond closer. It's easy to love when things are easy. It's certainly more difficult to be loving when you don't feel up to it. But it means so much when you do.
This is a siutation that should have never happened. Not to us, we were and still are very much in love. How in the hell did this happen to us?
Let it go. Focus on "still are very much in love". Have a great holiday!