I had a problem last night and I need a little encouragement. My H and I were talking about Christmas and presents. I had given my H a new rod and reel a few weeks ago and he told me that I should have waited until Christmas to give it to him. I told him that was just a "I Love you gift" He said well isn't that what Christmas is about, giving people you love gifts. It took me back-he gave the OW a diamond necklace last year for Christmas! Was that a "I love you gift". I think he realized right away what he had done. Anyway, I couldn't sleep last night, I had nightmares. I tried to redirect my thought process but boy that statement sent me right back to that dark place. Any words of wisdom?
