Update. Weekend was good. The candle light dinner fell apart, he asked me to turn the lights on so I did, but did it in good spirit. He fell asleep on the couch at my apt. so I woke him up about 10:00 and asked him to come to bed which he did, so he stayed with me on Friday. Now for the bad part. At about 1:30 in the morning his cell phone rang, we both were awaken and he answered it, I overhead a woman ask if this was **** and he answered yes, then she said you don't know me and then I could not hear anything more but the call ended very quickly. I asked him about it the next morning and he said it was the wrong number but told me what the area code was. I looked up the area code and lo and behold it is from the state that the OW moved to. Later I eased into it again and I asked him about the telephone call and he told me that he thinks the same thing that I did, I asked him if he deleted the number and he said No. I answered that with well, then you still have the number, let's call it and he said it came from a "private number" no caller ID. Well, that doesn't ring true with me because he knew the area code. Cell phones don't give you the area code without the number. But I kept my cool and left the questions alone for now. He did go on to say that if it made me feel better that he would be more than happy to change his cell number. He also told me that if she does call him, that she will wish that she wouldn't have because he intends to give her a piece of his mind and he hoped that I would be present if the opportunity arises. I suppose I could not hope for any more than that but it still disturbes me that he lied about deleting the call and that it was a private number. IMHO, none of that is true. Should I bring it up again and be more thorough in my questions? How do I handle this? When we are trying to build trust, I cannot take more lying. I need some advise please.
