I've not posted in a while because I've been trying to sort things out. I'm now on anti-depressants and they seem to be helping me. Things are still going very well for me and my H. We are planning our Thanksgiving festivities with the family, including my daughter who plans on spending the night with me at our home and help me cook. I was surprised that she accepted the invitation! So even that seems to working itself out.
Counseling last week did not go very well for me and my H last week. I wanted to explore what vulnerabilites caused his A and he got pretty defensive and said that we were stepping backwards. Our C said that it was very appropriate for me to want to explore this and asked him to write down five things that caused his A. My H said he would do it but thus far he hasn't. I've not brought it up to him and our next counseling session is tomorrow. We were suppose to discuss his reasons before C but we haven't so I'm a little put off that he has not taken the initiative to do this. What should I do? Should I ask him about it? Should I just wait and let the C bring it up? Any advise. I don't want to make him angry because things are going so well.
