I have felt so positive until I talked to my D. She despises my H and wants me to move beyond him. This really upsets me because there won't be any balance. My D and S cannot stand my H. I keep trying to remind myself that if they can see me happy, then they will come to accept us getting back together. But, I also have a concern that they will not respect me. After talking with my D, I became pessimistic again, thinking she may be right - she said that my H wants what everyone else has and we're just in the "honeymoon" phase, very much like a battered wife. Any help with this one?
