You do realize the precious things I was talking about were my kids right

Yeah I am assuming they werent immaculately conceived.... Your H is part of them yes?

So yes I feel I have much better control now as I no longer play fancy to those idealistic beliefs

funny then that there would be ghosts then, and I would be able to lock down my head, but not my heart..... you are not holding yourself to the same standard you think I will be.

Seldom do I laugh around him.

That is too bad.

I always tell him he is a hottie ..... But he has got a big ego I wonder where that came from?

How do you know this?

actually I dont know for the past 2 months. prior to that because she said something to the effect. She made a remark that made me wonder hmmm, last time we talked.
If you are right, how nice for me. He is done with her now so I am second choice and get the leftovers..... thats palatable. and yes this may be pride and ego to a certain extent but to a large part the M/F dynamic is never the same when this is the case. Even Dr. Harley agrees with me on this, or vice versa, though he words it differently.




Thanks Lil, I do that most times, just when I dont that Mr. Murphy comes along of course.