Now wait a minute I have spent months reading and responding to post on who important it is for the HD to feel that the LD is at least trying to make them happy. That they want to know that there needs matter to there spouse and knowing there spouses are putting a effort into speaking there LL. Now the fact that I am trying to show and tell him that I am so hell bent on keeping pace and not backsliding with the monthly min is something I am doing to make him more fufilled is something that should piss him off. Now wait a cotton picking minute correct me if I am wrong(like you would not even if I did not invite you to) But I thought that was what this whole identifying your spouses love language and learning how to speak to them in it even if it was not your LL was about. You know filling there love tank.
It is a fine line. I want more sex from my wife but if I get the inkling that she is just going through the motions it pisses me off and I turn her down. Usually I regret it the next day when I realize it'll be a few more weeks before she offers her "statistic building sex" again. We HD men want more sex but we want to feel that you want to ML, not simply that we are owed it and you are grudgingly paying a back debt.
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
