Okay, he is an insensitive jerk, lol. I have said the same thing about my H many times on the board. But nonetheless, here we are, looking for solutions. And one suggestion I have is something from a CeMar post...to give H the hugs and all, lovingly reject him, and make plans for rescheduling. Just pointing out to you that your moods affect him...and he isn't too savvy on how to handle them. Instead he feels an increased need to have sex due to the rejection, and then the drama ensues. The drama gets tiring after awhile.
Chauncie...what a pretty name. Funny how I feel comfortable sharing the most private parts of my sex life here, but my kids' names...too paranoid. Like everyone will know who Journey really is, as if I am so important in this world.
Lil...my partner in maternal neglect...we have missed out on a lot, haven't we? I like the robe idea, even some spa stuff. Chrissy, you sound like one cool mom...have to lend me a hand as D13 comes of age.