I agreee with you Mrs. Nop. If Chrissy is up agaisnt violent behavior, then all bets are off. But I do see time and again elements of very bad behavior, bordering on abuse, in many of the situations on the board. And we are trying to help one another boundary this behavior by promoting clear communication, self assertion and consequences. The question becomes, is there enough positive here to warrant all this work? In Chrissy's situation, as in the case Focused Flutist's, there may be too much abuse to think about salvaging the marriage...it's really about survival. Thanks for pointing out that reality, Mrs. Nop.
5 attractive qualities about my H
1. Great father 2. Always willing to help out...never lazy! 3. Very intelligent, good worker, good provider 4. Strong, comforting body 3. Shows kindness when I least expect it
