He then said that he is emotionally needy because I am not thats
Ok. You both are correct from where I am sitting. You are sounding very confidant and focused in your last few posts, but in the past you have made made references that he was physically abusive and extremely neglectful when you were seriously in need.
Im glad to hear that you wont take anymore of the physical abuse, and that you seem to be taking care of building up yourself. You seem sufficiently detached to be able to bringing your H up with you, so why not give it a whirl while you decide if you want to stay or go.
He is being honest, like GEL said he needs you to need him, see if you can find ways to do this, make him responsible for things. I wouldnt normally say this but it seems like you having some expectations of him would be a 180. Let him know something needs to get done, and then drop it. See what happens. You were correct, his insecurities are too many.
The next day being two down on the ML quota for the month. When I told him to drop the drawers he said no he did not feel good. I told him he had never taken that in consideration for me so to get to it.
ROFL. This is hysterically funny to me, and on top of that for you to consider yourself LD, more so. Head shaking, its very unfeminine, yet I can find no fault with it. I love it actually. Where you wearing leather and holding a whip? LOL.
no one has ever made mention of the way I speak of my self as a third party at times.
I find it funny, especially after Cobra came to my thread and spoke about me like a professor with a pointer educating his students on the various anomolies found in the sample subject. While you seem to be at the mercy of your emotions, you are too aware of your dysfunctionalities to be phsycotic. I had to bring it up and see why though. I guess we will call your present stage -doenst give a Sh!t chrissy. LOL.
