Wow.
The difference in attitude is apparrent from your posting.
Glad you have your own thread, maybe it will keep you out of my head.

Seriously between you, LFL, and Cobra you are determined to destroy the mystery, and ruin the Oedipal dynamic. LOL.

enough about me, back to you. whats up with using the third person?

He said something in line to him being that way because I am not.

The context surrounding this is pretty vague...
often we express a need during a argument or other emotional exchange.

Could there be any validity to this Chrissy?
You accused him of acting like a woman... and he retorted.

Are there ways you act like the man?
The speaking up for yourself and not fearing your H's possible angry outburst is a good change. Can you do it in a way that is productive and healthy for your R?

Maybe I am rushing the gun here, and should just let you throw down the gauntlet for awhile.