It's hard to say what he wants. His words and actions don't match - not in a malicious way - I just think he's clueless. I think the because I never really got over the ex, that I expected my H to be just like the ex - that was the standard that I was used to. On the other hand, the H is not a very passionate man. He is not passionate about anything - he's very passive.
And to answer your question - I think he is happy not having a lot of sex.
