Learning to trust myself III

[Burgbud]

...do you think it's talking out of both sides of his mouth that he will have sex with me but won't sleep in the same bed? Doesn't that suggest that this is NOT about being hurt?? It seems that it is about a principle that H has set and now refuses to back down on even though it doesn't freaking stand for anything.

YES YES YES!!! "...it doesn't freaking stand for anything." YES! Brilliant.