Gosh in that case, it would be like changing my personality, a piece of who I am....
Isn't that kind of what DB'ing is all about? Making behavioral mods in ourselves. Looking at ourselves and purging the "bad habits". Isn't that why people are encouraged to "DB for life"? I think that these behavioral mods are not aimed at changing the entire you, but rather pieces of you.
On the KLA CD's MWD talks about smokers who instantly light up after a good meal or love making session. It's little habits like these that we are called to notice and act on.
HG, you kind of stated a question that I have been thinking about. First, just how do I start a relationship w/o the op feeling pursued? What is the difference b/w enjoying the attention and feeling pursued? And secondly, once in a relationship, how does one keep it healthy by balancing spending "quality time" or "demonstrating love" and pursuit from the op's perspective?
