One more thing before I forget, I'm too tired to fully post on it now, but I will post more on it later and would love to have others' thoughts on it as well. You know how Michele says to do what works? Well, when things started going better between H and I, I was trying to be really detached. Not talking about my personal life, really sort of pulling away. But I was being very nice, not at all resentful. He seemed to respond well to that attitude. But then when we started getting along better, I opened up more, called him more, became less detached and then the ugly side of him creeped up more often.
Thoughts on that?
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
