Learning to trust myself III

[Burgbud]

I do read other people's threads too, I promise!!

I know you do! I think you get around this board more than I do.

It's great to see you and H moving in a positive direction. S_H made some comments in her thread that got me thinking and might be worth thinking about in your sitch as well. Do you think H sees your R as a parent/child dynamic? Some of the things he does seem like he's giving you "consequences" until your behavior falls in line with what he expects.

I really hope he makes your trip to Annapolis; you guys seem like you're in a place where you could really see some progress with some time alone. But in the unfortunate event it falls through, let me know and we'll get something together with a few folks up here. As long as it's not this coming weekend.