It may be based on what you think you're seeing, but it's still assuming.
He had no idea that he was rarely included in the sex *I* was having, lol. Independently of course.
That may have gone for both of you.
being married and all, it doesn't really apply to me
Yeah, I know. I guess what I was inferring, since you didn't get the assumption ha ha ha, was that you're isolating sex, and it is a need and a desire and all that, but you're having sex to fulfill that need and try and make things better, but hell, Heather, no kisses... it's not love and sex without love in a relationship... it just sounds so screwed up... to put up with matt's crap and issues and be subjected continually to his derision and then be treated like a hooker you don't kiss just so he can get off, insofar as he's concerned I'm saying, especially based on his comment that you two shouldn't be having sex at all - but that hey you're good at it - i mean, that's such total BS, truth is probably more like he gets horny and wants to do you pure and simple and he does what he wants. So, you get laid and you get off and you don't walk around wth that itch that needs scratching and yeah, so what? you're still doing battle with him the rest of the time and so my point is... what is my point? oh, my point is that you deserve love, not just a f*cking like he's giving you or that one can get anywhere.
