So I thought a 180 would be to let him know how sexual I am, he probably doesn't have a clue.

We don't assume to know if he has a clue or not.

It might've been a 180 to be more sexual, OK... and the results are...

Secondly, he seems emotionally closer to me than he would be if we weren't having sex.

Well I happen to buy into the idea that consistent and frequent sex keeps a guy acting nicer (conversely, a buildup of testosterone seems to fuel wars, doesn't it?)...

Of course, "nicer" is relative. Matt's degree of "nicer" may mean he spites you one less time per week than he normally would...

Third, I get some!

You could get that anywhere, if sex is all you want.

Reminds me of the story of the little girl and the little boy.

The little boy was a show off and egged on the little girl about how he had a new bicycle and she didn't, and how he had all the latest DVDs and she didn't and how his family had a brand new car and she didn't, and finally, he showed her his penis and pointed how she didn't even have one of those either! So she ran home crying all upset about these things and came back a little while later and calmly said to the little boy:

"My mommy said to tell you that I may not have a new bicycle, and I may not have all the DVDs, and I may not have a new car, but as long as I have one of these", she said, pointing to her crotch, "then I can have all the penises I want!"