OK, I've been posting under newcomers when to separate...and more but I have a question for everyone in this forum. I felt like H and I were making some positive progress. Then ow didn't get a new job at his school, and since then they have been trying to see each other more. This is so frustrating for me because H seems to have regressed majorly--gone for hours without calling to check in, more anger and resentment or indifference, all the behaviors that I started to see less of. When I talked with Chuck the other day, he said to keep doing what works. I am trying, but my PMA is in the dumps, and I don't want to regress along with H. Has anyone else had this happen to them? How did you handle it?
