Yes, she did walk out emotionally, I had to leave the home though ( emotional and financial reasons ).

I am becoming a better person for this. I have learned so much about my past ways that were self defeating. Now, I am changing them - fo me. We grow the most in times of pain.

I have forgiven her, and this has helped me let go of the anger and resentment - it was beginning to consume me. We have started talking to each other again, and it helps us both. Unfortunately she is still not in love with me, and at the moment isn't interested in reconciling. It is a new beginning, no matter what the outcome, for us both. I hope we will be united, but like you, I know that there is a demand for great guys. I just hope the old adage about nice guys finishing last isn't true.

M: 35; Together 14 years - married 5.5
no children
Bomb 22-JAN-2005; D a few months later
First real relationship post D just ended ( 7 months ):(