Quote: I've had 4 years of misery and I can't take anymore
Jo, I remember when you were happy this spring. I am sorry you are feeling down now.
Sounds like Andy is into his life too much and not willing/able to give much to you. Maybe it is time to take a break from him.
If Andy does not need/appreciate you, D4 sure does.
I have been reading this thread> DB"ing, etc...honestly, would you do it again? by Chazz. There are some good points to consider. Some people said they DB for their family, some learned to GAL, some people listed what they did wrong DB'ing. Read en and see if anything might help you.
How about visiting with a friend in the mean time. You are too good of a person to be unhappy for long.
you are feeling down now.