Well I'm 13 days over and still waiting. I must be pregnant as I've NEVER been this late in my life except when pregnant.
Andy sent me a text message saying he'd be here in a minute. I didn't even know he was coming round so I phoned him and asked if he meant to send the text message to another woman.
He said no, it was meant for me and he was on the motorway on his way to me.
I said 'why?'
He said because he was getting DD4.
I said 'excuse me but you've just had her 5 days and I wasn't expecting you till next week.'
He said he didn't know the holiday was instead of the weekend contact (i.e, he wanted both) - this is AFTER giving my kids to EX-OW to look after instead of me. He said it would go back to usual schedule next week. Since he was already in the car and to be honest I am fed up of him, I couldn't be bothered to argue. I am so resigned to being treated like [censored] that I can't even get up the will to disagree with him.
He arrived and I told DD4 to go and put her shoes on. Andy asked me what I was up to. I just said housework. I said to him I hope he has a nice birthday tomorrow.
He said 'Er, actually, I'm probably not doing anything after all; can I talk to you on msn? That is, if you haven't blocked me.'
(I HAVE blocked him).
I said
'Why? Have your other women stood you up?'
He actually had the nerve to say 'yes'!!!!!!! He told me he was going to his mother's before. Another lie to add to my list. 'Which one was it?' I asked, 'EX-OW1 or 2?' He said 'Both.' So he was going to have a cosy tea party with both his ex-girlfriend's in favour of spending it with me and that was before I even dumped him. Bloody good job, if you ask me.
He said 'It's not like that.' Yeah, right. Even if he's not sleeping with them, he still chose both of them over me when he said he loved me, etc etc, so in my opinion that's still having an affair, it's an emotional affair with both of them.
I said once before what kind of life would I have with him if I'm always second best, always second choice, and this is exactly my point. This is why I just don't want to be with him anymore.
I think he was hoping if both of them turn him down, he could just come round here and have me spoil him. Well, I'm not going to be third choice. He didn't appreciate a good thing when he had it.
He said he'd speak to me later. I was thinking 'I have no intention of being on msn.'
Why does the father of my baby have to be a total wanker?
