I was off the board running from Hurricane Rita, we are back home now, safe but broke beyond broke.
I wish I would have returned to hear better news about your sit., it makes me sick that things just can't work out for you and Andy. I wish I could come up with some magic advice that would make him see what he is missing.
My XW is in the same rescue mode that Andy is in, she does this because of her addictive personality. She gets mixed up in everyone elses drama rather than facing her own addictions.
I don't know how longer I can go on like this either, I am exhausted, sick and tired of games and emotional withdrawals. I think the C calls my problem co-dependency ( I love her and she uses me). The cycle still continues after 17 yrs.
Anyway enough about my problems, I just noticed the similarity of our XSes in rescuing "low lifes" (for lack of a better description).
All I can say is, you deserve more!! Keep working at GAL and someday you will have someone that cares for you more than they care for themself.
