There comes a time to let go completely. If it is meant to be with your XH then he won't let you get away. He'll prove his love to you. If it's not meant to be then you are too young to live life waiting on a potential R with him that might or might not be fulfilling for you. Good luck hun.
Gabe, I don't think there is a difference. When you've successfully dropped the rope and GAL you are no longer waiting for something from your X. If something happens, you might or might not be available to the XS anymore.
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In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
