H sleeps less than I do. He does go to work earlier, and gets off earlier, too; but not so much that our schedules are out of whack.

I would not get him up any earlier than his usual 5:15- if I valued my safety! He gets so little sleep as it is, that I don't want to decrease it even more.

He only fails the follow through if he doesn't initiate. I know it isn't ED. My opinion is it's the macho thing- a man goes after a woman. Or, he claims to be too tired if I initiate at the normal time I would go to sleep.

For clarity, I go to bed between 9-10, and get up at 6:40. He goes to bed between 11-12, (That's not to say he hasn't fallen asleep in his chair at some point, and likely waked himself up a couple times before he shoves off to bed.)and gets up at 5:15.

I'm sure that some of our imbalances stem from his sleep patterns, and the fact that he is a snorer, loud breather, and seems to have leg tremors at night sometimes. Yes, I have suggested he get these things checked out by a Dr., but, as in all other health issues, he ignores my suggestions.

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