OG_Lou,I'm from Malta.The sad thing is that I was still in the process of getting an adjustment of status so I don't have a green card,which means I cannot work so I can't pay for college.I can't even get a driver's licence
I admit I relied on H a little too much during the time I was here,but I thought marriage was forever and I still respect the vows that I made.He had always said he was not above counselling if things got rocky,so when he expressed to me his unhappiness,even though I tried my best to please him,I didn't think it was that bad.
Before I found this website and the DR book,I had no clue what I was doing wrong and how to fix it.Now that I finally know,H doesn't believe I'm changed.He says it's too little too late and he won't give counselling or DR a try.He just wants to get rid of me as soon as he can.
I was thinking of suggesting he read the chapter about sex in DR,as a friend,tell him he might find some answers there.I'll make it clear that I am not doing this to make him change his mind,that I know how hurt he is because of my lack of sexual desire,but that maybe he could use the info for any future relationship.
