Omg you gave me a good laugh. Sorry but when I read the peg board thing Tony Orlando and Dawns "Knock three times" Started playing in my mind. I must be drinking to much Nyqul this days.
Well at least she moved her peg. She put a effort into it. Which lets you know she was thinking about it. Since I seem to be a arousal then desire person that peg would have never moved.
Do you keep track of how many times you attempt to get the fires burning to just be left out in the cold. Maybe if you did for a month when your wife stated you do not just go with the flow you could show her I tried on xxxx days and you said no. My H use to always say we never had sex but once a month maybe. He would say we had not had sex in weeks even if it was just three days ago. I started keeping track and after a few months one day while he was on a pity me trip I threw down the calander and said really. At first he tried to say it was not right but since I now keep it out in the plan open he knows it is. Have not heard we never have sex in over six months. Some times a little visual is all they need to make them say hmmm well maybe you have a point.
