I'm not a real expert on these things, but I think the problem is that even LD people want to feel desired and chased after from time to time. So just saying I am ready whenever you are doesn't come across as particularly romantic. Of course, I don't think most LD people really appreciate how much rejection hurts.
Just my two cents. Best wishes to you. I have been lurking here trying to get my bearings. I'll post my story soon.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"