choc, does she wake you to come to bed or not? If she does get your ass in there. Get your ass in there anyways, if she says 'you are hot' get closer be obnoxiously funny about it, then roll over to the other side. Stop personalizing it. Better yet take the initiative and make sure you both go to bed at the same time. I dont know your sitch that well, but make sure you give her a kiss goodnight. Is she anti PT or just ML? You can sleep on opposite sides of the bed and still reach a hand over and place it on her leg or back, in a reassuring type touch, not needy or grabby.
