Well has he always slept on the couch since you have been married?
I am sorry I had to chuckle when I read your post orginally you see my S14 is a couch or floor sleepier always has been. We have changed beds for him several times thinking he was just not comfortable but it never fails he ends up on the couch or floor somewhere. Just last night we could not find him and thought he had snuck out but nope there he was curled up in the den sound asleep.
Well back to you sorry. You said now he says he does not know how he feels. But you also stated he says he loves you. And that he will come to your room to have sex but then leave again. So where did the not knowing how he feels come in?
Do either of you snore really loud? Kick in your sleep? Role around alot? Do any of your kids sleep in your room? Silly questions I know but they may account for something.
How much physical touch does he give on a regular basis ie hugs kisses pats not just to you but the kids? Does he dole out affection or is he a more hands off type guy.
Well welcome to the board sorry you had to come though.
