I hope some men out there have some ideas for me. My husband has been sleeping on the couch for years! We have three kids and the youngest is now 3, and I physically have to go downstairs to get him if I need help with the kids during the night, or if I would be in the "mood". My H does feel he loves me as a person, finds me attractive, but does not want to sleep in our bed. He will even just come up for sex (which has been lacking lately) and then go back to the couch. As he is never in our room, I rarely initiate sex as I feel he could make an effort to sleep in our bed!I hate this and feel empty, and I have expressed these concerns to him numerous times over the last 2 years, yet no change. I even offered to get a tv for the bedroom, and asked that he just sleep up there a few nights a week. I feel like roommates at best and he does not want to change, and now is unsure of his feelings. I can not have a relationship like this! He said he may go talk to someone. In the meantime, any ideas? If he can not change this the relationship is not enough for me. How do I apply the DB methods to this as this is how he has lived his whole life (his entire family likes the couch!).
