Your right about the fact that I have been enabling him to behave in this way. I don't know why I did not see that. When I read your post about this It struck a nerve because I know you are right about the fact that I am allowing him to treat me like this. I do think we are at least going in the right direction slowly, but there has to be alot of changes made on both of our parts if this is going to work. He has mentioned going to a doctor about his impotency issues. I know that this does bother him, but he is the only one who can do that. I remain supportive about this, but I can not say it does not affect me too. I am HD and at one time so was he.

Can't say this is not confusing. But I guess I will just do my best to do what is right for me. He was back to his normal self this morning. But which one will come home tonight? Him or the alien that looks like him?


Its not about getting what you want, its about wanting what you already have.