"Your affair and Glob's aren't similar. Your husband had abandoned you and the marriage. I believe I recall you saying that you had mutually agreed that you both could see other people. That's puts you at a different starting point. Glob and his wife didn't have such an understanding."
I never said our affairs were similar, or never intended to anyway. She did not betray her husband, I betrayed my wife, plain and simple. Although I felt abandoned emotionally and physically, I did not have a permission slip to "fill my love bank" outside the marriage.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"