Oh ZB, You are his long lost twin. Except I'm NOT an animal person and never have been. I've never had a pet and doubt I ever will, unless my kids are successful at wearing me down. (that's their sad face there..)
Putting others needs above your own. Yes, MrH would say that is the "right" thing to do.
Inspect that closely. Is that true?
Sometimes it's true. Is it true ALL of the time?
Talk about 4th grade, LOL.
Naw, you know I love ya, it's just that this VERY attitude drives me bananas with H and I'm taking it out on you. He takes it to such an extreme that it ceases to be a good and right thing any longer. You know...almost anything taken to an extreme is going to cease to be "right".