Well, the way I see it is that for some reason, ZB has this fear of confronting W...after all it's going to be unpleasant, it's going to take lots of work and energy over time, it's the loss of stability that W represents....psychologically, it's like Z-B feels he's going to be annhilated by a category 5 hurricane---he may want the shelter of a therapist who can work with him in a "real" way. Although he will encounter a series of storms, in the end he will be able to feel a rainbow inside...a sense of confidence and growth. Z-B, if you can do this on your own, then all the more power to you...if not, enlist a C, not to hide, but to promote your growth.
Oh and GEL, I agree...it seems that the ones most needing of C are the ones who avoid it the most.
