Ah, but that's my point. It's an act of will, which means there is absolutely nothing I can do until she decides that she wants to do something about it. I can try to create a sitch such that she does want to do something, but in the end, she still has to decide that she wants to get better.
As you said before, I've already used the big guns. And she didn't choose to get better. So what can I do now?
