From my thread about ZB situation
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BB read most of ZB animal story and sides with most of the folks here, that Mrs ZB needs to continue in her work with the animals but at a reduced pace and intensity. BB said that she/Nrs ZB, has to choose to be married and have a family, make time for them, and figure why she is avoiding ZB and the kids.

BB suspects Mrs.ZB has some feelings of neglect, ZB does not pay enough attention to her, Mrs ZB's weight problems is one issue she gets so emeshed into the animals, they don't care what you look like as long as they get some food and attention.

I believe most of BB thoughts apply to herBB/Lou's situation more or as much as Mrs. ZB situation.





FWIW


Lou