I cringed through most of your post Lil. You were on spot. When my H up and left I was humiliated. Some of those feelings are still there. I think reaching to OM was my way of evening the score to a degree. Two wrongs don't make a right, I know, but in my mind we are on a more even playing field now. Mrs. Z_Bube may never have felt the score was evened and thus, years later, is still trying to stick it to Z_Bube. I feel sorry for her because I can almost see myself in her shoes. I knew I couldn't live like that though. I guess it's never to late to work this out Z_Bube but I can see what I hard struggle it will be for you. Hang in there. Thinking of you.
