GEL,

You scored many more hits. I am using her self-esteem as an excuse. And by not saying anything, I [am avoiding the situation. Maybe recognizing that will help be break out of the pattern. But then again, you scored a hit on the fear too. I honestly don’t know what I’m afraid of, but I certainly recognize that I am afraid.

MrsNOP,

You, too, are a very insightful lady. I have lots of responses to what you’ve said here, but I’m thinking that it may be better for me to sleep on it before responding. Some of the things you’ve said deserve some time to sink in and think about rather than just responding with the first gut reaction. I’ll get back to you in the morning.

Zufriedengestellter Bube