The truth is that ever since I saw the “Why do you want to ML with someone who doesn’t want to ML with you” question raised on this board, I’ve been questioning myself and this R.
Oddly I can understand that. Though as we know I am the one with LD in my relationship. I can see that it is easier to say and understand it being said I want you to want me but not I want you regaurdless if you want me. That changes the dynamics around. And makes one wonder why? I have often wondered why my H still wants me when I have been so apparent in my lack of desire for him. I will keep what I have thought at times about this to myself hence not wanting to make your black mood blacker. And I am not your wife so she may not think the same things.
My suggestion is go home and hug and kiss your kids and hopefully your black mood will lift a little.
