The information I receive is from SIL. She is close with him and tells me how the family is very frustrated with OW since she doesnt help at all with the baby and wont get a job.
I did go to IC and thats where I found out about why I did what I did. I really didnt know how to be a wife. My mother and father dont have a great relationship and I was basically pushing him away like my mother does to my father. I know its not an excuse, just a possible reason why I did what I did.
Sex was the biggest issue in our relationship. We were totally incompatible b/c he always wanted it and I never did. There were 2 reasons for this.
1. I was taught by my mother that sex was dirty so I had a hard time being inimate with exh
2. Sex was somewhat painful for me and I couldnt figure out why. Turns out I have a cyst that makes it very painful for me. I have since gotten rid of that problem.
