Well by 'massage' I really meant just light touching. Running your fingers up and down her back or front or whatever. Or her arms or head or face. You get the picture. Really, what you are doing is great. I'm not trying to tweak it, only giving suggestions for the next phase.
Primary care, yeah I guess. Or an ENT, whomever would logically treat snoring. Or what about those adhesive strip deals? Do those work?
In your sitch I see two people who do not touch much, for any reason. So to even think about sex is skipping, like, 20 in-between touches. Even an HD gal like myself would be weirded out at the thought of ML to H without the intermediary touches...the touches that keep me familiar with the feel of his skin, the smell of him, the taste of him.
I think you are wise to start small with incorporating touch back into your lives. She needs to reacquaint herself with your body and vice versa. There is no doubt in my mind that she was thinking about sex when you held her. She was asking herself, How will I get to there from here ? And the answer was, I need to continue to touch him until I feel comfortable with it and I need it a lot--even sleeping with him for the whole night.
She's giving you the answers, now it's up to you to do your homework and make it happen!
