that was a very poorly typed response on my part arjnex.
Have you been reading the HDW threads and comments?they want more sex and they want their H to take the lead, make it happen
what I meant to say was ... even though the HDW have a greater appetite for ML they still want their H's to take the lead, to make the situations happen, to be the driving force.
Biologically female mammals are not aggresors, initiators. They send out signals showing they are receptive to our initiation. If we get the dance right ... we get to DANCE! This is going to apply just as much to a LD if she is open to it. I really think your wife is open to ML with you more its just your approach that has her thrown off. She gave you a plan, an idea and pretty much a go ahead ..... so go ahead. Whats the worst that can happen? She says not tonight? So what.
your hesitance causes her hesitance, your fear sparks her fear, your unease makes her uneasy.... etc. etc.
be excited about it, be eager about it, but if it is a no go, forget about it, try again later. You have ML before, snuggling nekkid together is no big deal.
