yes. this is what she wants. initiation is your issue. Have you been reading the HDW threads and comments? they want more sex and they want their H to take the lead, make it happen. Does it make sense, (shrug) possibly it could be confusing and not make sense to you. However, that is what the reality is. See it, acknowledge it, accept it and make changes in your beliefs so that you will naturally act accordingly.
Your line of thinking that GEL is telling you to lose, may in your opinion, be statement of fact, but it is not spun with the positive view or confidance that strikes a woman as being attractive.
GEL is trying to help you, by telling you how what you are doing/being is not attractive. Dont argue with her, this girl is like a living breathing female- male remodeler. You have ackonwledged you need to change some software. Be open to it.
