LustForLife, I found it here. That's a very thorough technique, from all appearances, and, if my wife starts balking at the technique she initially suggested (which starts at a "higher level" but involves a longer process), I'm going to recommend that to her.
I should do a quick scan through that whole section of the site; finding one good idea like that may lead to other ideas. Thanks for the pointer!
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