Quote: I think H is trying to get me to kick him out so that he has leverage in the courts so he doesn't have to pay child support, that and he won't be the bad guy in a very unprivate small town.
I think these days in a divorce, judges want to do what is financially best for the children. The idea of punishing the W for kicking out the H by denying child support sounds kind of old-fashioned to me. Have you consulted a lawyer just to find out what your rights/options are?
I think that when the time comes, you will know what to do. The fact that you aren't sure yet means (to me) that the time is not right to make a move one way or the other.
