Cin,
Glad the job is working out. Sorry the H is being a ass.
Maybe our H's are long lost brothers.
I started a job yesterday. Had to work this morning came home to the H acting like he is all dying and such. Men.

Cin the question you asked is up to you. Do you think there is salvagable within your marriage. And do you want to continue to try. You know your family and friends just want you to be happy and they are not seeing that happening with your H. So take there advice as to be loving gestures but nothing more.

Hope you have a good weekend