Building Bridges

[cinemanymph]

I feel so honored, I just got my first thread locked up. Can someone tell me how to link the old thread to this one? I can't seem to find the URL.

Anyway,

Karen, blackie, and Chrissy,

Thank you for your responses. H is going out of his way to be nice and I am being nice, too. I have just lost something and don't know how to get it back. I don't have any desire to try to fix this for him.

H is resentful about my not working (which by the way, I have obtained gainful, full time employment at my local Meijer baking cookies and decorating cakes. My kids are jazzed. I start Monday bright and early.) So problem solved.

I planned on spending this week catering to H's every fantasy, since he was on vacation and the kids were in school, instead I hit the pavement looking for a job. I can't concieve ML with him with this ugliness hanging like an impenatrable fog between us. He is behaving like a man who regrets what he has said, but is unwilling to bring up the subject and talk about it. I am not going to bring it up, this is for him to do. It isn't about trying to make him suffer.

I attended the funeral of a neighbor's wife yesterday. There were so many people there, they had to bring in extra chairs and there was still standing room only. The woman who died touched a lot of people. I was thinking that life is fleeting and my thoughts turned to what is going on with my H and I. Am I being foolish or stubborn by waiting for him to be ready to broach the subject himself?