roller, the background you gave about why your H married you does fill in some of the blanks. You wrote
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I want my husband back.


But it might be more accurate to say, "I want back the man I THOUGHT I married." It looks like what's happening now is you're finding out who you REALLY married...

UNLESS what he said to the C was not the truth, but was calculated to hurt you in retaliation for some imagined wrong you have committed.

I think the biggest problem you're facing is that you don't know WHO you married.