He was not physically threatening nor has he ever been. It was a situation he put me in and the other person was a complete stranger. His fantasy revolves around watching me with another man. He knows that I am very sexual and enjoy sex very much with him. He has been having problems for a while now with being impotent sometimes and he gets frustrated knowing this. I have encouraged him to see a doctor but he seems embarrassed about this. I am pretty sure that after our convesation last night he realizes that this fantasy is going to remain just that. I am still concerned the impact this will have on our already unstable situation.
Its not about getting what you want, its about wanting what you already have.
